Men are never difficult and complicated..they are easily understood and so can be tamed easily.I have had many male friends..indirectly learnt many as husbands/partners through their wives/girlfriends.I have closely studied them..Alas ! there is nothing very interesting in a man..All they can think of is sports,sex and gadgets(order has been shuffled intentionally).A few may be intelligent... a few may be humorous... a few may be ambitious but the core remains the same.I got to study a man from a partner perspective as well.It is nice that he is understanding, ambitious and supportive.But then why should I ever tame him? Not that I want to trap him, not that I want him to be a lame servile creature, not that I want to bewitch or ensorcell him to my desires....but so that he becomes better everyday..stronger every moment.Every woman wants a bold, caring and disciplined man knowingly or unknowingly.She wants him to be superior to him, she likes him to lead..and that is what you tame a man for? He can learn mathematics from a teacher, politics from newspaper...engineering/management from a school or even porn from a website; But only a woman can teach him how to be a superior creature..Only she can tame him to perfection..tame him to become something that she herself will yearn for him as a soulmate for the ages to come.
Your man can be either intelligent/dumber than you.But in either cases there is no difference in the way he can be tamed. If they are intelligent than you...They show superiority..they dominate..they ll make you feel dumb..they can ask you to follow..but deep in the heart they know what they are...they know the world is raising a new challenge everyday..but they dont want to show their wives that they are insecure...Again if they are dumber than you..they dont need to feel insecure of the world..they have a wife around to give that feeling !! Men face defeat as if nothing has happened..Men often have this habit of hiding their frustration..not talking about their failures...As a wife you need not have an education or a background to understand him.. you just need to show the interest in him..You have to show that you trust him..You have to show that the entire universe may conspire against you..but I vow to stay with you....You may not know what he is upto..but tell him there is a better tommorrow..Tell him he is the best man you ever know..Tell him he ll lead the world and you as well...Once he is assured of all this..he will listen to whatever you say..Behave like a baby... He will pamper you...Behave like a bitch..he will surrender to you...Be immature...He ll try to teach you..Be innocent..He ll trust you...Be hurt..He ll heal you...Be happy...He ll laugh with you...Behave crazy....and trust me that ll drive him ten times crazier than what he is for you today !!......So end of the day behave the way..you want him to see you...For a man doesnt have any identity in himself..he is just a mirror..As a woman you have many faces... many identities..And he can only mirror the way you behave with him.....You possess him..he will do the same...You sacrifice..he will sacrifice...You cry for him..he ll cry for you...You show respect...he ll do the same...Man doesnt have a shape..You shape him..and give them an identity.....Go grab the husband material you are looking for...Once you find the ingredients you need in a man...make the best use of it in making the husband you want out of it....All men are easy..Tame him the way you want !!
PS - My dear husband if reading this..please dont freak out....You had all the ingredients any girl would look for plus the "secret spice" that only I get to cherish..and makes you an interesting husband..today and forever...
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