I never believed that a support , mate a partner is required to excel in life and live a holistic life.I believe in myself..I believe in living for myself..I think I never cared about anybody else except me.I never believed in sacrifices.I know I am not born to become Mother Teresa.But life has its own way of teaching things and make you learn the basic rules of the society.
Like every ordinary/extraordinary single soul in life..I too fell in love.Not because I got married but because I can really feel him deep within.I dont understand the concept of marriage.If I stay with a person it is because I like him..he neednt be a husband..he neednt be anyone..It is not the string I wear around my neck that keeps me binded to my man. but it is the string between the heart that keeps us together.If it had not been for him I would have never lived a life..I would have lived a mechanical life..an obligation to have a male around me..an escapism from the ignominy from the society for being a single woman..that would have pushed me to get married.
If it had not been for him I wouldnt have realized I am a girl..a human..a red heart full of love and emotions.After an year of togetherness I can sense that this person is the whole world for me..and there is no real happiness beyond being with each other.I feel a little dumb and ordinary in saying this but heart says today that without love conquering the skies..conquering the mountains is never possible..even if it is..it goes waste..the purpose gets defeated.You need your love to push you towards your goal..cheer when you are winning..and give you shoulders when you lose..This somebodys presence can change things..a warm hug..a few caring words is much bigger than the inner strength( which once i believed is I have) and intelligence.You can fight the world..you can fight with yourself..but between the battles if your soulmate can stop for a while and say I am there for you...losing or winning becomes immaterial.I am not immortal..I am not an Angel..I am just another girl longing for the togetherness..longing for love..longing for solace..longing for eternal unision...
The chapter of "Togetherness" has been added in my book..and I dont really care if the coming chapters have sorrows/pain/success..All I want is to cherish this "Togetherness" otherwise life is empty..I remember my husband saying during courtship that "love cannot exist in vaccum"..After an year I would say that "Nothing can exist without togetherness" !!
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